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No. There is 0 reason to be toxic or an asshat in general. It should not be accepted. He might have reasons to be protective, but one can do that in a respectful manner. But going around, making something up, banning people for asking or criticizing is not the way to go.

Once you make something public it's not a private garden anymore.



> No. There is 0 reason to be toxic or an asshat in general. It should not be accepted.

So, you wanna shame or force him into accepting contributions? That's ridiculous!

> Once you make something public it's not a private garden anymore.

Wait, are you saying if I have an actual garden that I myself own and maintain, and I let random people from the street come see it between noon and five every Sunday, it's no longer my private garsden? Then you and I are on different planets in this debate.


You forgot to quote the part where I said he can refuse in a normal and respectable way.

If you make a garden and then declare it a public garden then yes. If you want people to not step on your flowers you can tell them in a normal way. No need to shout around, belittle them, and ban them from your garden for a year....

He could have just kept his Project private if he doesn't want people to interact. Simple as that.


> If you make a garden and then declare it a public garden then yes.

He didn't. He made a garden, declared it private, and set specific terms under which you and I and others can come enjoy it. Take it or leave it.

> No need to shout around, belittle them, and ban them from your garden for a year....

Then follow his rules, or don't go to his garden! He's offering you a free favor. Take it or leave it.

> He could have just kept his Project private if he doesn't want people to interact. Simple as that.

Of course he could have. However, I'm adamant that those of us who find Valetudo useful – i.e. find his garden beautiful – would be worse off for it. Why would you want the overall usefulness given to the world to decrease? What's the benefit? Not feeling annoyed that he won't let you help?


They didn't say either of those things. What they said is that you can say no and not accept contributions without being a toxic asshat.


You can do it the first couple thousand times. After that it just becomes harder and harder to be sociable.

Would you still be so nice after doing it the ten thousandth time?




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